Boundaries PART 2: Consistency Is Everything
A boundary enforced only sometimes isn’t really a boundary—it’s a suggestion.
How would your relationships change if your boundaries stayed steady?
Yesterday, the focus was on clarity—learning to state boundaries without over-explaining or apologizing. Clear boundaries set the line. Now comes the part that truly makes them work: consistency.
A boundary enforced only sometimes isn’t really a boundary—it’s a suggestion. When the line keeps moving, people learn that persistence pays off. That doesn’t mean others are malicious; it means they’re human. Consistency teaches people what to expect, and it teaches you that your needs matter even when it’s inconvenient.
Every time a boundary is upheld, self-trust grows. Every time it’s abandoned to avoid discomfort, resentment sneaks in. Consistency isn’t about being rigid—it’s about being reliable to yourself. When your actions match your words, your confidence strengthens, and your relationships become clearer and healthier.
Be Positive, and have an amazing day.
Russell B
