Your Kids Don’t Need More Stuff — They Need More You
At the end of the day, kids won’t remember the stuff we bought them as clearly as they’ll remember how we made them feel.
As a parent, what do you hope your kids remember most about time spent with you?
I’ve learned, as I am sure you have, that the most meaningful moments with the people I love rarely come from big plans or expensive things. They come from sitting on the couch laughing at nothing, grabbing ice cream on a random Tuesday, or listening—really listening—without checking my phone, or thinking about my response. Quality time isn’t about doing more; it’s about being more present. Life moves fast, responsibilities pile up, and distractions are everywhere, but memories don’t care about our schedules. They’re built in the small moments we choose to show up for.
This truth hits especially deep for parents who are separated or divorced. I know how easy it is to fall into guilt, comparison, or the feeling that time is never enough. But here’s what I’ve come to believe with everything in me: no matter how old our kids are, they still need us. Not perfection. Not constant entertainment. Just us. Our attention, our consistency, our willingness to be emotionally available. Whether it’s a short walk, a shared meal, or a conversation that goes a little deeper than “How was your day?”—those moments matter more than we realize.
At the end of the day, kids won’t remember the stuff we bought them as clearly as they’ll remember how we made them feel. They’ll remember feeling safe, chosen, and important. Time spent together is a quiet way of saying, “You matter to me,” without needing fancy words. And the beautiful thing is this: it’s never too late to start showing up differently. One moment at a time. One memory at a time. Because love isn’t measured in things—it’s measured in presence.
Be beautiful, be positive, and have a wonderful day!
Russell B
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